DrCarlHindy

I am a New England native now residing in Southern New Hampshire. A graduate of Brandeis University (BA), and the University of Connecticut (MA, PhD). Clinical psychologist in private practice in Nashua, NH, since 1987, providing individual psychotherapy, marriage counseling, evaluation and consultation, and media discussion of relationship topics. Co-author of "If This Is Love, Why Do I Feel So Insecure?"

my website

http://www.hindyassociates.com/

Submitted Comments (19)

Modern Technology Destroying the Family as We Know It »

• Well, as I spend my days doing counseling, I'm often struck by the increasing lonliness and sense of disconnection people feel ... from one another ...

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Facing Deficits, Some States Cut Summer School »

• Eliminating summer school to save money: Penny wise and pound foolish? Sad to take from those who need it the most? Adding to long term ...

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Getting Your Teen Ready for College »

• Yes, it seems that our teenagers finally get comfortable with high school, and then it's time to "start all over again." It seems that youth ...

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Tips for Dads After Divorce »

• An important topic that deserves to be expanded upon. It's an important topic for the main reason that (1) father's continued involvement with his children ...

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Tips for raising generous children »

• This research demonstrates empirically the importance of childhood experiences such as observing parents helping others, volunteering to help others, belonging to helping organizations, and so ...

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What Makes Us Happy? - The Atlantic
(June 2009) »

• A great article. Part of the growing body of research showing that we have many misconceptions about what will lead to happiness. These data from ...

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Who controls the checkbook? [VIDEO] »

• As a psychologist doing marriage counseling, I've probably seen every possible family arrangement for paying the bills, and I'd say there's no right or wrong ...

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spanking could save your marriage »

• Wow, there's a loose leap of logic! Actually, several questionable inferences. While it might be true that marital happiness declines overall when a couple has ...

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Why happy couples are moving to separate beds - Times Online »

• As a marriage counselor that concerns me, and it further concerns me that articles which make it seem normal or customary may help folks further ...

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Who is More Intuitive, a Man or a Woman? »

• I would guess that men and women are, overall, equal in intuition. For example, if we were to devise tests of intuition where it could ...

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Love As If You Would One Day Hate, And Hate As If You Would One Day Love »

• There's a quote from Nietzsche that conveys a similar sentiment and which I find meaningful:
  
  "You should honor even the enemy in your friend. ...

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Optimistic Vs. Pessimistic: Take a Peek. Who are you? »

• There's a large and growing body of psychological research which shows the positive correlates of an optimistic attitude toward life. I'm pleased to see, even ...

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My Father Asks For Nothing »

• A wonderful and emotionally moving vignette of your father, obviously rendered with such love and respect.
  
  Carl Hindy
  http://www.hindyassociates.com

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Why Won't My Boyfriend Marry Me? | Lifescript.com »

• Why won't my boyfriend marry me? This question brings at least a few couples each year into my psychological counseling practice. What I've found is ...

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• Why won't my boyfriend marry me? This question brings at least a few couples each year into my psychological counseling practice. What I've found is ...

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Are You Honest? Don’t Be »

• Sadly, the news these days might lead to a spiral of more distrust and cynicism, and a distortion of what's normal. I, for one, believe ...

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