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lenseview1 year, 3 months ago

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If somebody drops in to my house unannounced & uninvited I immediately tell him/her, that's it, you've violated my space and futhermore, to repair the friendship, you're going to have to take this pile of laundry sitting in the middle of the livingroom floor to your house and do it there for me.

Seriously, it is kind of a fine line, I think. You want to be spontaneous, mellow....on the other hand, there's something to be said for knowing in advance who's coming by, etc. Maybe you can tell certain people in advance it's OK for you (& you only) to come by any time...of course that advance "telling" takes away some of the spontaneity. How bout you say, no problem, you can come any time...as long as it's between 5 and 5:15 p.m on the 3rd friday of each month.....

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