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moxxxxxxxxxx5 months, 3 weeks ago
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If you don't like "unfavorable comparions" then stop acting like your "unfavorable" friends,brother, father.....
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You've changed! You need improving!
If you don't have the intuition to know what a female is feeling then you obviously can't know when you are acting like your unfavorable fiends, brother, father or even the fact that you have evolved into a fixer upper, you didn't start out that way.-
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slate5 months, 3 weeks ago
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WOW!
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A married man's wife comes to him and says "I'm leaving you, you aren't the man I married". The man replies, 'Blame yourself, you are the one that wanted to change me".
I suggest women marry the guys they want to compare their men to, it would make it easier on everyone involved.
What we are supposed to be clairvoyant too? Maybe you women should be issued with a decoder ring, so we can understand what the heck you're talking about?-
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moxxxxxxxxxx5 months, 3 weeks ago
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Really? The difference is men are visual and women verbal. Men just need to see what ever gets them going and women need to hear what ever gets them going. If you need a decoder you haven't figured that out yet.
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I think men are interesting. I will never understand how men can be infautuated with a woman by just looking at her. They don't need to talk , or hear her talk, all they have to do is look. It's just simply amazing. If thats all women needed all people would have to do is sit and look at each other.-
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slate5 months, 3 weeks ago
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Men are hard wired to be visual, why would you be upset with that? If women weren't obsessed with it as well, why do they spend billions to look good each year? women dress provocatively to get mens attention do they not?
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I need a decoder rihg many times when a woman thiks I should just know what they mean by "Ilove him, I love him for the man he almost is and the man he could be' after I make him into the man I want him to be.
A man marries a woman for who she is and hopes she will never change. On the other hand a woman marries a man and begins the task of changing him into who what she wants him to be, now tell me that makes sense. Why marry someone that you'd think needs to be changed?
I too find women to be very interesting.-
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moxxxxxxxxxx5 months, 3 weeks ago
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I am not upset with it. I think it is interesting. Women spend billions a year to look good because as you said, they are trying to attract or keep the attention of a man or men. When a woman matures and gains a better sense of herself she dresses for herself- comfort being the main criteria or she wears nothing at all. At this point men feel deceived and claim she isn't taking care of herself, but feeling comfortable for a women doesn't equate to looking sexy for a man. Honestly-- For a 15 minute event is it really worth investing the majority of your time preparing for it.
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Of course we are generalizing. But you are correct a man marries hoping she doesn't change and a woman marrries prepared to change. An old professor once told me this is related to biology. Men have unlimited opportunity to reproduced themselves. All they have to do is be attracted to a mate and they can reproduce. and they can do it with as many partners, and as often as they wish. Women are limited in their reproduction. They have only so many years , not counting the 9 months they spend actually growing the man's genes. So women look for the perfect specimen to mate with because they don't have unlimired opportunities to keep doing it overe and over. So women change men because they are trying to make them into perfect specimens.-
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slate5 months, 3 weeks ago
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Most women that mature and stop getting the glances they claim they didn't need, usually pine for the days when they turned heads.
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A fallible human female looking for perfection in an equality fallible male is really a waste of time. Once men and women alike decide they love others for who they are and realize that no one can truly be manipulated into something else will things get better.
Just remember there is something about your spouse that made you want to live with them for the rest of your life on that day you stood at the alter. When you try tweaking them into something else, you either end up making them resent you for it or you end up with someone that doesn't resemble the very person you made that commitment to.
Like I said earlier, if women are looking for 'perfection' they should wait and find the ultimate 'perfect' man that is everything they want a man to be, then marry them (if the man is interested in you). Finding a semi-perfect guy will work as well (just think of it as the perfect meal, just without the "ultimate" dessert, but with a darn good dessert).
Besides, who gives you the right to demand the man change who he is to fit your ideal vision of who he should be? How would you feel if the man came in and started a 'change campaign against you?
If men and women always treated each other like they did when they were romancing each other this would not be a problem. Unfortunately, life isn't a Disney fable.-
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moxxxxxxxxxx5 months, 3 weeks ago
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Men change with or without female tweaking. You certainly aren't the same man you were 20 years ago. Women just guide the direction of change.
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If someone would invent a romance pill the problem would be solved.
Perhaps thats what Viagra inventors had in mind. Only the results aren't what they expected. When you give a 50 year old man a pill to make him biologically function like an 18 year old he wants to be 18 again.-
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slate5 months, 3 weeks ago
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Want to guide me in the direction of a perfect woman? I have yet to find any perfect men or women.
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But they aren't trying to manipulate you into something they want you to be. Advice is one thing, trying to mold others into the image you want them to be is something else.-
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slate5 months, 3 weeks ago
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I think everyone manipulates things in their better interest, starting from childhood.
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Which is more evil? I'd say trying to change one's personality to fit how you want them to 'become'. If someone manipulates you to get something they want and you are naive enough to believe it (especially if you've been around for more than like 15 years) i'd say that maybe you should get one of those decoder rings I talked about earlier.-
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moxxxxxxxxxx5 months, 3 weeks ago
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One cannot be naive if they are aware that they are being manipulated.
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It is impossible for a women to change a man's personality. What she is changing is his behavior. It is the man's personality to begin with that allows the woman to change his behavior.
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